Thanks to lessons she learned in Ways of Seeing, Aossey now reframes her responses. On a recent visit to Iowa, a white older woman approached her in a bookstore and asked what country she was from and why she was there. Instead of getting upset, she asked if the woman genuinely wanted to know. When the woman said yes, they sat down together and Aossey shared her family’s 100-plus-year history in Iowa. She also pulled up a map on her phone to show Lebanon’s location in the Middle East. “We had a really good conversation and we both learned something,” Aossey said. “She didn’t know anything about the Middle East other than what she'd heard from people who weren’t Middle Eastern — she didn’t even know where it was located on a map. She shared that she never graduated (from high school). She was acting from a place of ignorance, but was open to learning. And I realized that my frustration can close me off to these teachable moments. I’m not saying this will work in every situation, but I was pleasantly surprised how well it went.”
Junior Ishita Desai agreed that reflection before difficult conversations and trying to see from someone else’s perspective is helpful — even with people you’ve known your whole life. Desai, who is from Mumbai and was raised Hindu, said conversations regarding gender identity — specifically identifying as nonbinary — led to strained relationships with Desai's family. The economics major now approaches the nonbinary topic from a point of view that Desai’s religious mother would understand. “In Hinduism, the souls are genderless. When talking with my mother about accepting someone who identifies outside of the gender binary, I’m connecting it with religion and culture. It’s a work in progress, but it’s opened the door for more productive conversations,” Desai said. Desai chronicled this experience in a digital story, which is a capstone video project where each student filtered their perspectives and experiences through course themes. Students will share their videos on the last day of class.
Waung hopes the course will help students move beyond what she describes as today’s “me-first” mindset and work toward collective advancement. “We don’t need to share specific values, but we do need to find common ground and think collectively about goals for society to make things better,” she said. “Getting angry or frustrated because you do not agree with something takes energy — it’s draining. Let’s put that energy into a different kind of action to get a different result.”
Grasso, who wanted to teach again before his planned retirement in 2026, said he’s inspired by hearing the students’ ideas and witnessing their capacity for introspective reflection. “Spending time back in the classroom continues to be a source of joy and purpose,” he said. “Working with these bright, thoughtful and engaged students not only gives me great pleasure, but also hope for a sustainable, prosperous and compassionate future.”
Aossey said the course’s lessons about self-reflection, intellectual empathy and holistic thinking are preparing her for what’s next. Her professional goal is to work in Halal food certification, bringing more food options to rural areas in the United States. She said the job requires understanding culture, religion, business practices, safety regulations and food science.
“I’ve had a lot of great classes at UM-Dearborn, but this one is among my favorites because we hear from experts in different fields and see how everything connects — art, business, technology, all of it,” she said. “Challenging yourself to learn different perspectives — different disciplines, cultures and ways of thinking — can make you better at whatever you choose to do now and after graduation.”
In addition to Waung and Grasso, guest speakers have included Professor of Marketing Aaron Ahuvia, Assistant Professor of Industrial and Manufacturing Systems Engineering Areen Alsaid, Associate Professor of Women's and Gender Studies Amy Brainer, Professor of Anthropology John Chenoweth, Associate Professor of Physics Will Clarkson, Lecturer of Business Communications Jennifer Coon, Associate Professor of Psychology Francine Dolins, Associate Professor of Mechanical Engineering Amanda Esquivel, Professor of Philosophy Maureen Linker, Applied Art Lecturer Erik Mueller, Professor of Art History Diana Ng, U-M Vice President for Information Technology and Chief Information Officer Ravi Pendse, Associate Professor of Sociology Carmel Price and Professor of Public Health Natalie Sampson.
Story by Sarah Tuxbury; photos by Matthew Stephens